{"id":342,"date":"2013-06-13T13:15:53","date_gmt":"2013-06-13T17:15:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ohsodj.wordpress.com\/?p=342"},"modified":"2013-06-13T13:15:53","modified_gmt":"2013-06-13T17:15:53","slug":"quick-thoughts-vol-7","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/?p=342","title":{"rendered":"Quick Thoughts Vol. 7"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"MsoNormal\">So here are some quick thoughts on current stories:<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ohsodj.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/preg.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-343\" alt=\"preg\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.ohsodj.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/preg.jpg?resize=250%2C260\" width=\"250\" height=\"260\" \/><\/a><strong>Woman Accuses Kanye West of Affair<\/strong>.\u00a0 So a young lady has come out of the woodworks claiming that she had an affair with Kanye West, the boyfriend and father of Kim Kardashian\u2019s baby. What a mess.\u00a0 I\u2019ll start by saying who knows if that\u2019s true.\u00a0 Still, this shenanigan aside, how many ways can this guy show he\u2019s not ready to be a father?\u00a0 He\u2019s hugely successful, yet he decides to record an album in Europe during his girlfriend\u2019s pregnancy.\u00a0 Then of course the tour follows once the baby is born.\u00a0 He hosts small events like his birthday bash in a totally different state where his girlfriend can\u2019t travel.\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/ohsodj.wordpress.com\/key-phrases\/\">SMH<\/a> \u2026<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">The question of the morning on the radio station I was listening to was \u201cwould you want to know if the father of your unborn child was having an affair?\u201d\u00a0 I suppose most people want to know the reality associated with any situation.\u00a0 However, I\u2019m sure pregnant women who find themselves in this situation face an especially hard decision. How horrible \u2013 being pregnant is by far the most vulnerable state in a relationship. You are essentially stuck for a moment in time. It\u2019s like taking advantage of a defenseless person and a huge form of disrespect. \u00a0Every relationship has ebbs and flows and I have certainly forgiven questionable behavior.\u00a0 However, I PERSONALLY would not have tolerance for kicking me while I\u2019m down. To me, stepping out on me while I tied down for about 9\/10 months is just that.\u00a0 I was raised to be independent.\u00a0 So unless I\u2019m physically debilitated I will never feel like I have to take any sort of mistreatment \u2013 especially that <span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\">specific<\/span> situation. Although I grew up in a two-parent household I in\u00a0NO way feel obligated to demean myself to provide a fallacy of a household.\u00a0 Secondly, I also lived through my own divorce.\u00a0 What that showed me is that life goes on after tough situations.\u00a0 And after\u00a0Kim\u00a0lives through this Kanye foolery, life will go on for her.\u00a0 But&#8230; Kim will never have a good relationship until she lets the bad one go. The quicker Kim lets go of the fairytale version she has of love, the wider her door\u00a0 of opportunity will get to receive a real relationship.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">It&#8217;s all very sad to me.\u00a0 No matter what her moral standards are (or aren&#8217;t), you can tell she&#8217;s someone looking for the happy ending.\u00a0 Sadly, this isn&#8217;t it!<\/p>\n<p><b>New Guardians for Paris Jackson?<\/b>\u00a0 I hear the judge may be reconsidering the guardianship of Paris Jackson after her recent suicide attempt. Uhhh\u2026.ya think???\u00a0 Let me reiterate my initial thoughts from the Kanye debacle because it seems appropriate here as well.\u00a0 This is mess!\u00a0 \u00a0I believe one of Titos son\u2019s \u2013 who lives 2 hrs away \u2013 shared guardianship with Katherine, her grandmother and Michael Jackson\u2019s mother.\u00a0 First off, 2 hrs is insanely far away when we\u2019re talking about parenting a teenager. My mom was in the house with me and I managed to get away with some harmless teenage shenanigans. Secondly, an 80+ year-old parenting a teenager is insanely old.\u00a0 Add to that the fact that Katherine has been used to living in mansions with zoos in her backyard.\u00a0 Please\u2026 A teenager would run circles around her. This is sad of me to say, but this girl was already behind the 8 ball when Michael died. So here\u2019s the million dollar question:\u00a0 who should be her legal guardian? Ride with me as I share all my\u00a0hypothetical thoughts.\u00a0 I\u2019ve heard that Debbie Rowe may be a candidate.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ohsodj.wordpress.com\/key-phrases\/\">SMH\u2026 IDK<\/a>, something about Debbie isn\u2019t right to me.\u00a0\u00a0 I know she was pregnant around the time that Paris was born, but I am not convinced she was more than a segregate. I need a DNA test and no one wants to do that because we know that Michael wasn\u2019t the biological father. (Sounds like he was a great father figure, but not the biological one.) \u00a0Furthermore, I\u2019ve got to question anyone who was close to (or heaven forbid intimate) with Michael Jackson.\u00a0 Where has she been all the years?\u00a0 Is this a money ploy? For me, I have too many questions about Debbie so she\u2019s out.\u00a0 Of course there\u2019s always the suggestion of the other Jackson siblings, but let\u2019s be honest \u2026they\u2019re all a little coo-coo for Coco Puffs for one reason or another so they\u2019re out.\u00a0 Another candidate I hear is Diana Ross. Supposedly, there\u2019s some sort of paperwork floating around that says Michael wanted Diana to be their guardian if anything happened to him.\u00a0 Hmmm\u2026.Well, we all know how paperwork and Michael are a questionable combination.\u00a0 There\u2019s always drama with him and contracts. Someone always forged something, but humor me and let\u2019s go with this idea.\u00a0 Although Diana was quite the gal around time in her heyday, she eventually settled down and raised some great kids.\u00a0 Tracee and Evan are two accomplished actors.\u00a0 The rest are parents themselves.\u00a0 (There could be one questionable one, but comparing that to the Jackson clan is a drop in the bucket.) I know Diana may not have any sort of relationship with the kids now, but we\u2019re grasping at straws here.\u00a0 If I had to pick, Diana would be my first choice easily.\u00a0 It\u2019ll be interesting to see how this turns out.<\/p>\n<p><em>(ok&#8230;these thoughts were a little long, but I assure you they came across my brain pretty quickly)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"mh-excerpt\"><p>So here are some quick thoughts on current stories: Woman Accuses Kanye West of Affair.\u00a0 So a young lady has come out of the woodworks claiming that she had an affair with Kanye West, the <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/?p=342\" title=\"Quick Thoughts Vol. 7\">[&#8230;]<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[321,334,654,690,830,969],"class_list":["post-342","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-debbie-rowe","tag-diana-ross","tag-kanye-west","tag-kim-kardashian","tag-michael-jackson","tag-paris-jackson"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7qLKy-5w","jetpack_featured_media_url":"","post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/342","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=342"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/342\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=342"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=342"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ohsodj.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=342"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}