So here are some quick thoughts on current stories:
Woman Accuses Kanye West of Affair. So a young lady has come out of the woodworks claiming that she had an affair with Kanye West, the boyfriend and father of Kim Kardashian’s baby. What a mess. I’ll start by saying who knows if that’s true. Still, this shenanigan aside, how many ways can this guy show he’s not ready to be a father? He’s hugely successful, yet he decides to record an album in Europe during his girlfriend’s pregnancy. Then of course the tour follows once the baby is born. He hosts small events like his birthday bash in a totally different state where his girlfriend can’t travel. SMH …
The question of the morning on the radio station I was listening to was “would you want to know if the father of your unborn child was having an affair?” I suppose most people want to know the reality associated with any situation. However, I’m sure pregnant women who find themselves in this situation face an especially hard decision. How horrible – being pregnant is by far the most vulnerable state in a relationship. You are essentially stuck for a moment in time. It’s like taking advantage of a defenseless person and a huge form of disrespect. Every relationship has ebbs and flows and I have certainly forgiven questionable behavior. However, I PERSONALLY would not have tolerance for kicking me while I’m down. To me, stepping out on me while I tied down for about 9/10 months is just that. I was raised to be independent. So unless I’m physically debilitated I will never feel like I have to take any sort of mistreatment – especially that specific situation. Although I grew up in a two-parent household I in NO way feel obligated to demean myself to provide a fallacy of a household. Secondly, I also lived through my own divorce. What that showed me is that life goes on after tough situations. And after Kim lives through this Kanye foolery, life will go on for her. But… Kim will never have a good relationship until she lets the bad one go. The quicker Kim lets go of the fairytale version she has of love, the wider her door of opportunity will get to receive a real relationship.
It’s all very sad to me. No matter what her moral standards are (or aren’t), you can tell she’s someone looking for the happy ending. Sadly, this isn’t it!
New Guardians for Paris Jackson? I hear the judge may be reconsidering the guardianship of Paris Jackson after her recent suicide attempt. Uhhh….ya think??? Let me reiterate my initial thoughts from the Kanye debacle because it seems appropriate here as well. This is mess! I believe one of Titos son’s – who lives 2 hrs away – shared guardianship with Katherine, her grandmother and Michael Jackson’s mother. First off, 2 hrs is insanely far away when we’re talking about parenting a teenager. My mom was in the house with me and I managed to get away with some harmless teenage shenanigans. Secondly, an 80+ year-old parenting a teenager is insanely old. Add to that the fact that Katherine has been used to living in mansions with zoos in her backyard. Please… A teenager would run circles around her. This is sad of me to say, but this girl was already behind the 8 ball when Michael died. So here’s the million dollar question: who should be her legal guardian? Ride with me as I share all my hypothetical thoughts. I’ve heard that Debbie Rowe may be a candidate.
SMH… IDK, something about Debbie isn’t right to me. I know she was pregnant around the time that Paris was born, but I am not convinced she was more than a segregate. I need a DNA test and no one wants to do that because we know that Michael wasn’t the biological father. (Sounds like he was a great father figure, but not the biological one.) Furthermore, I’ve got to question anyone who was close to (or heaven forbid intimate) with Michael Jackson. Where has she been all the years? Is this a money ploy? For me, I have too many questions about Debbie so she’s out. Of course there’s always the suggestion of the other Jackson siblings, but let’s be honest …they’re all a little coo-coo for Coco Puffs for one reason or another so they’re out. Another candidate I hear is Diana Ross. Supposedly, there’s some sort of paperwork floating around that says Michael wanted Diana to be their guardian if anything happened to him. Hmmm….Well, we all know how paperwork and Michael are a questionable combination. There’s always drama with him and contracts. Someone always forged something, but humor me and let’s go with this idea. Although Diana was quite the gal around time in her heyday, she eventually settled down and raised some great kids. Tracee and Evan are two accomplished actors. The rest are parents themselves. (There could be one questionable one, but comparing that to the Jackson clan is a drop in the bucket.) I know Diana may not have any sort of relationship with the kids now, but we’re grasping at straws here. If I had to pick, Diana would be my first choice easily. It’ll be interesting to see how this turns out.
(ok…these thoughts were a little long, but I assure you they came across my brain pretty quickly)
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